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You're too smart to get drawn into one of those bogus lotteries or online dating scams designed to part you from your money, right?

A Berks County woman who contacted us had felt likewise, but she got conned nonetheless, and now wants to warn others.

A Nigerian scammer captivated the woman through online chats, eventually convincing her to send him $500. She was ready to transfer more money before discovering his name and photos on a romance scam Web site, and realized she'd been duped.

Another Berks woman recently sent $250 to a caller who claimed she would then receive $2.75 million from a lottery she wasn't even sure she'd entered.

"I knew it seemed too good to be true, and that you shouldn't have to pay to receive a prize, but they were very convincing," she said. So the woman, who is on a very fixed income, gave away what amounted to her rent payment.

There is no doubt that these scammers are skilled, so consumers need to stay alert.

More tip on avoiding dating scam: Dating Guide 101

A COMPANY and a businessman have been hit with penalties totalling $6.5 million over a mobile phone dating scam, in a joint case that has now netted more than $22 million in fines.

Scott Mark Moles and Jobspy Pty Ltd were penalised $2.5 million and $4 million respectively for contravening the Spam Act with unsolicited SMS messages that "preyed" on lonely hearts across the country.

One victim of the scam bought chocolate and flowers, hired a hotel room and waited at the airport for a date that never arrived.

Moles and Jobspy worked with companies Mobilegate Ltd and Winning Bid Pty Ltd, which were penalised $8.5 million in October as part of the same court action instigated by the Australian Communications and Media Authority (ACMA).

Former Winning Bid director Simon Anthony Owen, current Mobilegate director Tarek Andreas Salcedo and Winning Bid employee Glenn Christopher Maughan have also previously been penalised a total of $7.25 million in the same case.

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Bah humbug? No, not really. I met several singles over the holidays who dreaded this time of the year and were happy for a chance at a new beginning. January is the single largest month for new subscriptions to online dating services. When they discussed their frustrations with online dating, I asked why it wasn't working for them.

Their number one reason was FEAR. Yes, fear. Fear has caused many singles to lie about their age to fit into a search. This isn't new. So, when a 59 year old fairly attractive male told me he said he was 55 in his profile and he wasn't planning on changing that number, I asked him, "Will you still be 55 when you are 60?" He had to think about the answer.

Most of us look in the mirror and think we look younger than we are. We see photos on Facebook from high school and college friends and they always appear older than us, or at least we think so.

I continued my discussion with the almost 60-year old man. He was concerned that only older women would write to him. Maybe some will. When I convinced him that he didn't have to go out with every woman who wrote to him, especially those that didn't fit into his search, he eased up for a minute. When I was positive that he wasn't going to tell the truth about his age, I asked him how he'd feel if a woman lied about her age and said she was 5-10 years younger. Although it's a common trend in cyberdating, he said it's a turn-off to him.

Finally, I asked him to make a New Year's resolution to update his profile. He was not going to say he was 59 as fear of turning 60 made him panic. He did reluctantly agree to adding a "disclaimer" in his profile saying that he was really 59 but looked and felt much younger and wanted to fit into a search. I asked him to be honest about his age. He said he'd try it. After all, he hadn't been successful in lying on his online dating profile in the 3 years he has been on multiple Internet dating sites.

It's a New Year. 2009 was difficult for many with the economic turbulence. The desire for singles to couple-up is at an all time high. Wouldn't you want someone to be honest with you from the beginning? New Year's resolutions. Who needs them? We all do, if we want 2010 to be better than 2009.

Make it your New Year's resolution to live your life with authenticity -Online, offline, and where ever you may roam.

Dating Guide 101:

In a series of dating tips, US first Lady Michelle Obama has urged women to look beyond good looks and settle for a man with a good soul. “Cute’s good. But cute only lasts for so long and then it’s, “Who are you as a person? That’s the advice I would give to women - don’t look at the bankbook or the title. Look at the heart. Look at the soul,” said Michelle, who is married to President Barack Obama for the past 17 years. The 45-year-old mother of two warned women against marrying “somebody who doesn’t make you completely happy and make you feel whole”, Glamour magazine reported. She also spoke of the qualities which drew her towards her husband. The couple, who have two daughters, met in 1989 while working in her native Chicago at a law firm. “He was always special, you know. And not special like, he’s gonna be important, he’s gonna be president. He was special in terms of his honesty, his sincerity, his compassion for other people,” said Michelle.

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"Married dating" classes promise to drag you and your partner back to the days when you were tearing each other"s clothes off and conversation consisted of more than "good night" at the end of each day.

Married dating classes attempt to school you back into being old romantics by using techniques including individual discussions with a consultant, tips on how to flirt with your partner again, how to dress to impress and how to surprise your partner like you used to.

"When you"re dating, everything is new and exciting," says Elect Club"s Haley Hill, who organises couples" classes. "But when a level of security is reached, we tend to slip into our comfort zone and that initial desire we felt for each other disappears."

The rise of married dating classes comes on the back of new research which states many couples are unable to divorce because of financial restraints.

According to the study by divorce firm Law Options, 60 per cent of married people are too scared to get a divorce because of the cost and more than a third would never leave their partner because of loans and shared mortgages.

For those who find time a problem, some class organisers such as Asian Dinner Club will not only send you out to dinner after your flirt class but will find a babysitter, book you a table and even get someone to vacuum while you are out so your boudoir is ready for romance when you return.

"The hardest part is actually getting people out of the house," says director Salima Manji, whose service will organise surprise "dates" throughout a six-month period and introduce them to other married couples at networking nights.

"During that time we will help you plan any important dates like birthdays and anniversaries and get your confidence back," she says. "Also, by introducing you to other married couples you take the burden of conversation off each other – we encourage you to make new friends and spend a little time apart."

Doctor Manoj Mistry, 35, and his wife, Sam, 34, from west London signed up for the Asian Dinner Club"s married dating classes after routine and work pressures had meant they had started to take each other for granted.

"I went on a “blind date” – with my husband," says Sam. "This happened after the club had given us both a bit of a style makeover so we looked sexier. Just arriving separately made it seem exciting again, like in the days before being married when you never fully know how the night will turn out."

Manoj was less enthusiastic to begin with but was soon convinced.

"As a guy I feel the responsibility to think of romantic things to do, so it was good to have someone come up with cool places to go out in London and do the “man” part of sorting out all the bookings."

These classes are a much less serious alternative to relationship counselling, says Elect Club"s Haley Hill (pictured). In her "Passion Reviver Package" you meet a consultant as a couple, then on your own to find out what you feel is causing the relationship to stall. Then follows "tailored relationship consulting", including style and fitness advice. Fed up of his spare tyre? Has her nagging put an end to sex? Get the consultant to let each other know. The consultancy then books you a sexy weekend away.

If all else fails, you can always put a gun to their heads.

Hill says: "The most popular part of our service is the Spy School weekend – it"s hard to see your wife in the same way after you have watched her shoot a revolver and learn body combat. It provides sexy new experiences to talk about over a romantic dinner that night."

 

Actress Hayden Panettiere has fuelled rumours of dating Entourage star Kevin Connolly.

The 20-year-old actress - who has previously dated her Heroes co-star Milo Ventimiglia and British TV presenter Steve Jones, was seen holding hands and enjoying an intimate conversation with Connelly at the HBO Emmy Awards.

"They were there to hang out together and stayed for hours until well after midnight,” Contactmusic quoted a source as telling gossip blogger Perez Hilton.

“Kevin only left Hayden's side towards the end of the night when he wanted to chat with someone at another table," the source added.

Panettiere was recently linked to millionaire Harry Morton, after the two were seen holding hands with just three weeks ago. "He still thought he was dating her last week and told friends all about her. Harry was bragging about getting her to do anything he wants," the source added.

You know, it's a secret dream that almost everyone would love to meet a millionaire and fall in love. Will it ever happen? For most people, it won't. But the truth is, if you do it, you can do it! According to a recent survey, the number of the wealthy singles are increasing. And the singles who are seeking millionaires and wealthy men are also increasing, especially young extremely beautiful women.

 

More and More women who are looking for their perfect wealthy millionaire matches are more willing to show themselves in the millionaire matchmaker clubs just like millionairecupid.com, wealthychats.com, etc. With little doubt, MillionaireCupid is the leading online dating community dedicated to helping wealthy and successful men and beautiful women meet the other half in a comfortable online environment. Charlie sheen has found a match here a few year ago. And a great number of new success stories are coming out one after another. That's the reason why millionairecupid is becoming the first choice for millionaire dating. "Finding love can be tough enough but finding a mate that's wealthy and beautiful can even be harder. That's the reason WealthyChats.com comes in", wealthychats.com is pursuing the romance between wealthy men and beautiful women. It provides some more special features dedicated to wealthy men and beautiful women dating just like certified wealthy men, photo & age verification, etc. It highlights the quality of their members. More people are willing to make them verified since verified members get more privileges and more opportunities here.

 

Probably everyone has ever dreamed of a love story with a millionaire or beautiful woman. However, you are unlikely to find many millionaires in your average suburban nightclub, cafe or restaurant. You need to strike out for new territories. The easiest way is to open your computer and start a millionaire match search on the internet. The world is small once you make your search online.

 

Most of wealthy men and successful singles have been busy at their businesses, they don't have enough time to find their loves via conventional dating style. Thus, they prefer quality millionaire dating clubs. CEOs, celebrities and many more have been joining millionaire dating club. Will you be the next one?

Ever wonder why the man you're dating and having an amazing time with doesn't call you very often?

Or worse... stops calling altogether?

If you've ever had this happen to you with a man, then you know how FRUSTRATING it can be when a man just suddenly stops calling for what seems like no good reason...

And you've spent more time than you'd like to admit wondering what happened and what YOU might have done wrong.

Most women in this situation fall into a kind of trap that seems to work against them...

Instead of recognizing that the man not calling is an important signal in of itself, they become obsessed with wanting to know what he's thinking and WHY he's acting this way.

But most women also know on an intuitive level that coming out and actually asking a man why he's acting this way wouldn't bring about anything good.

And guess what?

Their intuition is right.

With most men in this situation, if you want to connect with a man and grow closer, then the answer is NOT to try and get him to talk about his thoughts and feelings.

It's time you learned what it really means if a man isn't calling... and what to do about it to quickly "turn the tables" in your favor so that he's the one calling and asking you out.

I'll share this with you, but first I want you to read this email I got recently from a reader about this exact kind of situation.

Know Who You're Seeing

Ascertain the kind of man you’re dealing with as soon as possible. This needs to be done tactfully. Ask questions to “authenticate him” and to find out who he is. A man should be willing to tell you what he does for a living and who he works for. If he says he’s “in business for himself”, ask what the name of his company is and ask what they do. (Women may wish to be more circumspect about where they work until they feel good about a guy which might take fifteen minutes or two or three dates. You probably do not want the guy showing up unannounced at work.) Ask where he lives.

If you feel a man is being very coy, I wouldn’t see him again. Most men have little to fear from women and should be open with you. Not being open may signal that he doesn’t do what he says, doesn’t want to tell you where he works or lives or is a man who doesn’t want to be identified. Having a man tell you “I work on Wall Street” doesn’t tell you very much. He may also be married, masquerading as single. Learn enough about a guy so that he could be “checkable”, even if you do not do it. Of course, if you know somebody who works at his company or lives in his area, tactfully ask about him, or have someone else help. You might get a good report, which can be encouraging, or you might learn something that will cause you to cross him off the list. “Men of mystery” may sound fine in movies and in books, but in the real world, know who you are dealing with as best as you can.

Personal Safety

If you exercise caution and prudence about who you go out with, and the situations you are in, most of the time the men you date will be gentlemen and personal safety will not be a dating issue. If you feel that a man's behavior is improper, say so. If he tries anything that is not welcome, be very firm in saying no. If he persists, tell him that "No means no. I expect to be treated like a lady." Never go anywhere isolated with someone you do not know well.

Watch your drink if you need to leave the bar or table. Some men have been known to slip drugs into them. If there is only a little of your drink left, finish it before you get up. Be careful how much you drink. It can affect how you act and respond.

Hopefully, you will never have to resort to the use of personal protection devices on a date, or any other time, but it is something you should consider. One safety device all women should have is a cell phone. Leave the phone on when you are out. Many of them are already programmed, or can be programmed, that when you push and hold on the "9", or other programmed key, it will automatically dial "911". Other personal protection products include pepper sprays and high decibel alarms. The products are available from many sources,including the link shown below. Check with a police officer or attorney in your community to ascertain what the law is with respect to the use of personal protection devices. It is against the law to take pepper sprays on an aircraft. Any products designed to further ensure your safety are ones you should take the time to consider.

There is also a digital pedometer/alarm which measures distance and calories burned which has a pull cord which when activated produces a loud panic alarm. Stay fit and safer at the same time. This product was mentioned in "Health Magazine" for women. It struck me as a very sensible, and additionally useful, safety device.

There are also a number of personal safety videos for women, self defense courses and other manners of protection you may wish to consider.

Always wear your seat belt and lock your car doors. Both will offer you greater protection in an accident. I was hit by a hit and run driver. My car was totalled when I lost control and went into a concrete median. If I hadn't had my seat belt on, I would not be writing this now. Be safety conscious.

I mention this as a matter of general safety, not specifically relating to dating. While there is no perfect advice on this point, a video developed by a former City of Chicago police officer recommended that if you ever are threatened by someone with a weapon ordering you to come with him, it is better to make your stand right there at "Location #1". Run and scream "Fire!", not "Help!" which people are more likely to ignore. If you are grabbed, use pepper spray, a personal alarm, gouge eyes, scream "Fire", bite, kick or do whatever you have to do. It is no time to be "a lady". The location an assailant would take a victim to, "Location #2", is only going to be more isolated and therefore more dangerous. I've mentioned these things not to unduly alarm you, but so you will think safety, be forewarned and better prepared.

Never walk in dark areas or stay in buildings where you are alone. Being "street smart" involves staying out of harm's way.

Always make sure that there is at least one person who knows that you are going on a date and when and where you are supposed to meet and what time you expect to be back. If you feel it is a situation where you don't want anyone else to know, write information out and leave it in your home or apartment in plain enough view for someone who might later need to look for it. If you are going out and a guy is picking you up in his car initially, or takes you out in it later in the evening, when you go to the lady's room or are someplace private, leave the car's license number, where you are and your date's name on an answering device at home or at work. You should always have your own cell phone with you, and again never go anyplace lonely with anyone you don't know well. As an additional precaution, if you know anyone in law enforcement, show them what I have written and ask for their advice about anything else that they, in their professional experience, feel that you should do to protect yourself.

 

It was Saturday night. I poured another glass of wine for myself and tucked in to my takeaway for one. Absent mindedly flicking through the tv channels, mixed feelings of boredom, loneliness and sheer terror washed over me. After just four years of marriage, I was on my own again. And with the big 40 around the corner, I wasn't looking forward to being 'back on the market' one little bit. Me and my ex had met through work. I was his boss. He was younger than me. There was a kind of ego power trip going on when we got married. It was fun. Adventurous. I felt in control, like I was his mistress. We'd met in March and were married by that December with a baby on the way. But the spark I'd mistaken for love was nothing more than excitement. It soon vanished and we both knew we'd rushed into things.

Four years later, I was a 39 year old single mum with very few single friends to go out with 'on the pull'. And despite the wonderful world of cosmetics, I wasn't the spring chicken I used to be. I certainly couldn't compete with the silky smooth, cellulite free species of half naked girls who thought a stretch mark was something you got in an over used pair of tights. Of course, I had my six year old boy, Matthew, to keep me busy. But you soon get fed up with night after night sat in on your own with nothing but Thomas the Tank Engine for company. My days of clubbing were over. I needed to meet single men in a more suitable fashion, in a way that didn't leave me looking desperate like Jennifer Saunders' sad character in Ab Fab. I was actually a very sociable and outgoing person, spending all day with all sorts of people as a fully qualified nurse. Being on my own scared me more than the thought of a date with strangers. I just needed to meet them in the first place. "Why don't you give the personals column in the local paper a go?" suggested a friend one day. "No way!" I laughed. "That's so sad!" The next day I went out and bought a local paper, turned straight to the personals section and read the ads with curiosity. I decided it wasn't that bad. I'd give it a go. 'Bubbly blonde looking for friendship. Maybe more.' It was totally unoriginal but I was new to this. It was still good enough to get several messages left in my voice mail box which I collected that weekend. Most sounded duller than a party political broadcast. But one was OK. His name was Steve and he lived pretty nearby. I liked his voice and the fact that he described himself as someone who didn't take life too seriously. I was a sucker for a sense of humour. That first date was terrifying. But very exciting. I felt like a school kid all over again. We met a few times and got on fantastically. But there was something missing. That spark, that little something extra. We both realised that we were destined to be best mates...but not lovers. Despite the lack of romance, I was determined not to class it as a failure. It was a success. I'd had a few nights out, which beat Saturday night telly hands down. And I'd made a new friend. After that...I was hooked! My second date in comparison, really was a disaster. I sat in my car on the beach where we'd agreed to meet. He was rallying his beach buggy up and down on the sand. I waited for the hunk of a man who'd replied to my latest ad to drive over and say hi. I had a picture of him that he'd posted to me, and couldn't wait to meet him in the flesh - he looked gorgeous! And here he was, racing on the beach like a character from Baywatch. I dreamed of how I wanted the next hour to go and drifted off into my own world of romance and sex Gods. "Hello," came a shrill voice at the car window, suddenly, making me jump. "You must be Shelley. I'm Paul." He smiled a big smile, revealing the best advert for going to the dentist I'd ever seen. He must have had two teeth if he had any at all! I burst out laughing hysterically, couldn't keep a straight face. He looked more like Paul Daniels than Paul the hunk I was expecting! Not only did he have the misfortune of no teeth and of looking nothing like the picture he'd sent me, which must have been easily twenty years old, but he was also cursed with the foulest of breath and had apparently had a complete personality bypass operation. Three hours later he was still talking about engineering over the same glass of orange juice. I wondered if the edge of my wine glass was sharp enough to cut my wrists. Sadly for me, that wasn't the last nightmare date. It was the first of many. But as I became more experienced and confident, the nightmare dates began to split up into sub categories. There were the nightmare boring dates, the nightmare pervert dates, and the nightmare stalker dates. At first, I often felt too mean or bad to say 'no thanks, not for me' as soon as I knew a man wasn't right for me. I'd endure painful nights out, even go on second dates with men I wouldn't have looked once at in the street. But several 'bored to tears' dates later, I became much better and stronger at saying 'no thanks'. But it was the men who wouldn't take 'no' for an answer who were the worst...and the scariest. One man seemed perfect to start with. He was kind, caring, attentive. I received flowers delivered to my door, loving text messages, romantic meals. We had three dates in total. But I knew deep down he just wasn't my Mr Right, there was something about him but I didn't know what. After I told him, he changed completely, showed his true colours. I started getting viscous, evil text and phone messages, saying that I was an evil bitch who didn't deserve to be happy. He parked up outside my house for two days straight in his van. Never budged. He sent a text saying he knew where my mother lived and that he'd pay her a visit. I was terrified. "If I ever see you again I'm going straight to the Police...you freak!" I screamed down the phone before hanging up. I never saw him again. After that date, I gave it a rest for a few months. But the boredom soon crept back. And even a rubbish date seemed more appealing than a lonely night in on my own. I turned to text dating. You submitted your post code and got texts from people in your area, looking for a date. It was a lot more successful than the paper for actually getting out and meeting people. I must have had ten dates in three or four months. People were braver with the text dating. No pics, no voices. The texts could often be very saucy. The danger was that each date was a totally blind date which had its obvious pitfalls. But there was an extra excitement too. Not knowing what to expect. I always tried to be as careful as possible, arranging dates in public places and letting a friend know where I was going. I'd often turn up early for the date and case the joint. Once I turned up for a date and recognised the man I was supposed to be meeting from his description of what he was wearing. I was horrified. He looked more like 68 than 38. I felt slightly ashamed as I kept on walking right past him and straight back to the car! The text dating produced a lot of dates, but no success. And an enormous phone bill. I stared in horror at my mobile bill for £350 one month. I soon stopped text dating after that. "I'm on the net and having some great results," said Steve, the guy I'd met on my first ever date. "Give it a go." He recommended a few dating sites and I logged on, built my profiles and uploaded my pics. He was right. The internet was a great way of meeting people. It was a simple case of there being so many profiles for both men and women to look at and email. It was almost overwhelming. In my first weekend on 'U Date', I got 33 messages! And from guys of all ages. The oldest was in his seventies, looking for a younger woman for a bit of no strings action. I laughed at the thought of seeing him naked. Thank God he didn't send me any pictures. Unlike so many other guys - who seemed to think that emailing me a disgusting photograph of their genitalia was all that they'd need to secure a hot night of passion with me at the nearest hotel! Even gorgeous young lads as young as 19 and 20, desperate to get laid by a sexy older woman and report their conquest back to their pals, were convinced that a video of them masturbating would have me flocking to their bedrooms and stripping off. If I was supposed to be impressed, it wasn't working. If I was supposed to laugh until almost wetting myself, it was working a treat.   The other predator on these sites, as I discovered the hard way, was the married man. Twice, I met up with men who seemed perfect in every way, only to discover they had a wife and kids. One man really wooed me, picking me up in his Porsche and whisking me off to a luxury resort for the weekend. I fell for his charms and was convinced I'd found Mr Right. But the second we'd slept together, he broke my heart. "You're not for me," he said coldly, "but if you want to meet up regularly just for sex then that's fine." I was gobsmacked. I felt so used, so dirty. I'd never had a one night stand in all my life. Now, at 40, my record had been shattered. "Get over yourself you creep," I yelled. "Who the hell do you think you are?" It became painfully obvious that despite the high numbers of men on these websites, more than half of them were after only one thing...and it certainly wasn't love or romance. I couldn't trust the pictures they posted as their own. I couldn't trust their description of themselves as honest, caring, single men looking for a serious relationship. And I couldn't trust myself not to fall for it again and again. 'Genuine' was a word used all too often on these profiles. But in reality, few actually were remotely genuine. But when you're lonely, a little affection and a bit of flattery, plus a bottle of wine can get a girl into situations that you wouldn't normally let happen. One guy described himself as tall, muscular, handsome and Italian. He turned out to be 5ft 3" and had the build of the man off the Mr Muscle ads! There was more 'Italian' in my PVC handbag. Another man from Bristol couldn't keep his hands off me from the other side of the table in the restaurant. "You're gorgeous," he letched. "All my Christmas's have come at once. You're my dream woman." He made me feel sick. He gave me a lift home but when I turned down his offer of meeting again, he wouldn't let me out the car! It was funny at first, but an hour later I was still persuading him to let me out as he begged me to give him an other chance. I was genuinely terrified as I sat there, wondering what the hell I'd got myself into this time. After two years of playing the dating game, I've earned the title 'Ice Maiden' from my friends. They think my problem is that I'm too fussy. But the truth is I'm an old romantic, and with one failed marriage to look back on, I'd rather wait for Mr Right than settle for Mr Right Now! I don't think I'm asking for too much. My dream man is no different to any other woman's. Tall, dark, handsome, muscular, intelligent, independent, kind, loving, and with a great sense of humour! My latest adventure is speed dating. It's definitely a good way of meeting people, but it comes with no guarantees! I've had some great nights out, but sadly they're far out numbered by the amount of awful nights I've suffered. >From being bored to death, to having men not taking no for an answer, >to being practically stalked. I've had love letters, proposals, churches booked for the big day after one date! Flowers left at the door, boxes of chocolates and bottles of wine...even a kebab and chips from the man up the road in the chip shop! But for all the fun, it's very hard work being single at my age. Especially when some men won't look at your son as part of the package but more like unwanted baggage. I'm at the stage now where I don't even think I'll meet Mr right through the internet or any other dating method. But the truth is I'm addicted. I've tried refraining from dating in the past but it doesn't take too many nights in on your own for the dating to look like a good idea again. I know I'm not the only one, there must be thousands of us out there looking for someone with that bit of something extra. Now, two years of dating later and still alone, I've had enough disaster dates to put most women off the idea for life. I don't know if dating has become a void filler or a lifeline for me, but it's certainly an addiction. And as more and more dating possibilities and services spring up, I can see that loneliness is nothing if not big business. Ideally I'd like to meet a man in a more natural way. The websites are too clinical, too deliberate. There's no element of romantically bumping into a stranger, eyes meeting across a crowded room. The dating sites, text dating and even speed dating are all... to finding love, what IVF is to making babies! Well, I've got to go now and get ready...I've got a date tonight!

 

Jealousy is often a sign that the man cares for a woman. He cherishes her and wants to protect her, that's why he becomes jealous of a few things and a few people. But what happens when those "few" things and people get more and more? That's the time that jealousy is not productive anymore.

As the woman in the relationship, you need to know some of the concrete signs that you can watch out for to determine if your millionaire match is not the "gentleman" he is setting out to be:

1. Too much determination to spend more and more time with you. This is not a bad thing, in itself. I mean, who wouldn't want to spend their time with a great woman like you? However, alarm bells should start ringing in your head if he insists on spending more and more time with you that it eats up your time with your buddies and friends offline. He insists on chatting with you right after work, like if your work stops at 5, he'll be at the chatroom or email you at the exact dot. He'll ask you why you were late and who you were with, then at what time did you exactly get out of work, and how much time you spent on travel. In short, he's monitoring out your social activities. By making sure that you know he's waiting will pressure you to go back home ASAP and go online with him.

2. Too much interest with your social life. He would insist on knowing each and everyone of your friends and family members. If he sees you chatting with someone you did not introduce to him, or catches you talking with someone else, then he's get into irrational anger and demand that you tell him who you were chatting or talking to. Why does he do this? To put it simply, he's worried that you'll dump him for that "guy" on the phone or chatroom. Again, he doesn't think that he deserves to be loved, so he would always wonder why you would love him and he will be constantly afraid that you'll leave him for a better man. He would also say how each friend is a bad influence to you, and you'd do better to dump them and spend more time with him.

3. Too much involvement with what you wear. Admit it, as women, we love to make a fashion statement. We always try to look our very best when we go out, right? Even if we're only meeting someone through the web cam. This is where you can usually find out first if he's possessive and/ or jealous. How? He will try to influence you and the way you dress. He will insist that you change into something else if he sees you wearing a particular set of clothes. He will insist that you can't wear certain shorts, skirts, and your jeans, and will insist that you let him know all of the outfits that you will wear. If this happens, then tell your guy gently, that you are comfortable with your clothes and you will wear what you want and he'll have to live with it. But again, say this gently, so as not to arouse an even bigger monster inside him: anger. He will also start attacking your self-esteem little by little, making criticisms on how you look in certain outfits, and then telling you that you should feel lucky that a girl like you has a millionaire match like him. Do not believe this. You are an extremely beautiful woman inside and out, and he's the one who's lucky that he has you.

It is always great for women to feel loved and wanted, and a little bit of jealous actions will be an indication. However, it has to have its limits and should be kept in control.

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OPW -- June 15 -- I asked Match.com for a statement regarding the McGinn suit where Match is accused of 'defrauding customers who paid for the dating service by failing to disclose that it lumps together current subscribers and canceled members and displays them as the same.' The CEO of Match, Greg Blatt, states...  "Match.com's continued success depends upon the success of our members in making online connections and turning them into meaningful relationships offline.  The allegation that we would deceive our subscribers by encouraging them to connect with inactive members therefore makes no sense and is contradicted by our 14-year record and the hundreds of thousands of members who find someone special on Match.com every year.  We understand that finding romance, offline or online, can at times be emotional and personal, and we wish Mr. McGinn well in his search.  But his lawsuit is without merit, and we will defend it vigorously."

Q：I have been single for many years and never been married. I'm now in my 50s and desperately trying to find someone. I have joined an online dating service and have met some local women, but nothing has clicked.

Many women overseas, particularly from Ghana, for some reason, have approached me. Usually, these are women in their late 20s to early 30s who are looking to get into this country. Some of them seem to have been in abusive relationships. Some are ready to go to bed with me as long as I am willing to give them what they want. Are they simply using sex to get ahead?

Am I paranoid or is that the way things are today?

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A: I hate to break it to you, but chances are these women from Ghana are not using sex to get ahead nor are they coming from abusive relationships.

The fact is, they're probably not women at all, but part of a larger Internet scam operation that is preying on your loneliness and desperation. Why Ghana? It is one of a handful of countries from which these types of Internet scams originate.

You are being conned. Do not, I repeat, do not ever send any money to anyone who contacts you internationally by email requesting money in exchange for companionship. There are plenty of legitimate dating sites and lots of other ways to meet women. Nothing may have clicked for you but don't let your discouragement, frustration and loneliness make you an easy target for these types of scams. Hit delete and move on.

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- the final choice for those rich and wealthy singles and those who wants to date and love them

Online dating is becoming convenient, empowering, fun and interesting. In recent years, busy professionals may not have enough hours in the day to complete normal task, let alone try to find that special someone for love and relationships. Dating alone can be a difficult mission and finding that right individual who fits your unique needs is even more challenging. High caliber singles dating is on the rise and more and more single professionals are seeking online dating opportunities in order to meet that special man or woman of their dreams with a good background or successful career. Here are some of the hottest millionaire friend finder dating services online that cater to professional individuals with busy lifestyles.

 

MillionaireCupid.com is a premier service that provides successful professionals with a platform to meet quality individuals. It prides itself on upscale clients such as CEO's, doctors, lawyers, entrepreneurs, celebrities and professional athletes and has just implemented a certification service of millionaire members. Members can join them for free. The free membership includes a profile post, conducting profile searches, and send free winks / emails as well as online chat messages, etc. Millionaire, is defined on MillionaireCupid.com as any guy who makes over $150,000 a year, or someone with a net assets of $1 Million. So most members with a nice job can become a certified millionaire on this website. "This is a place to accumulate quality singles. We hope every quality single can find love through our website", says the website. With tens of new success stories every week, MillionaireCupid is proving their success with their own efforts.

 

WealthyChats.com is an online dating service for men and women looking to step up their dating experience. Even though, a majority of men on this dating website are not millionaires yet, however they have the potential to become millionaires very quickly. WealthyChats.com has an earning guideline of $100K or more. I have to say that the caliber of these men are pretty impressive and would be worth a browse. For a limited time only, membership is free which includes a profile post, profile searches and email. The key thing about WealhyChats.com is that they have a premium verification system. The WealthyChats Verification System verifies and approves age, photo, education, occupation as well as income. It helps fresh members to filter out fraud and scam.

 

Online dating is becoming more and more unique. While successful professionals and high caliber singles strive for continued and heightened success, the need for these services will continue to grow. So, what are you waiting for? Here is your invitation to visit these websites and possibly meet the love of your lifestyle.

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by Nataliya Piterova

Before we go into the subject of millionaire dating secrets, it's better to differentiate between just online dating, and dating for millionaires.

When I talk about dating for wealthy people I dont state that only rich singles should date each other. Its a dating for successful and self-confident personals. And money isnt the big issue in such a dating. People who register on dating sites for millionaires are very good-looking (at least they believe they are), successful, wealthy, travel a lot, have a lot of wonderful friends and family, and live a very exciting and active life.

Once you have in your mind to get into dating for successful and rich people make sure you stick to certain rules and follow them. I am going to share some secrets with you to help you make your online dating for millionaires more successful.

Probably many of us think of ourselves as being not deserving to have a better life and rich person in it. As it happens that we are not so rich, or educated, or professionally trained as others. We compare ourselves with the people who gained much more than we did. If you continue thinking that way you are not the person to achieve much, particularly in online dating for successful people. The first secret is to accept yourself the way you or else you will never see opportunity. You will not feel free to move toward it; you will feel you are not deserving. Your background, professional skills and your education dont play the greatest role though its important too. None of mentioned-above helps you once you have low self-esteem. If you accept yourself as you are and confident about your personality then you are able to enhance your professional level, obtain necessary knowledge to have a better communication with a person you date.

One more secret you are to know - you cant buy love. Rich people know it very well. When they see you easily fall in love with them they might suspect you of being insincere who is after their money. Being very pragmatic wealthy people hardly believe in love from the first glance without seeing other persons character or knowing him personally. Be aware you are not a thing to be bought when you register on millionaire dating sites. Stay in dignity and you will be treated with much respect.

In any social niche of society there are certain principles and rules to follow. It reminds if you play game you must know the rules of it or else you will loose. The next secret is that not everything about money or education level. People will take you according to your behavior. It is up to you to earn rich peoples respect or spurn them being ignorant.

One of the secrets I am going to reveal and talk about now is our looks. Dont misunderstand me our looks make first impression and its very important but it doesnt mean so much for wealthy people. So, what is more important then our looks and appearance? Its your character. It matters when you are serious about dating rich person. Be attractive in your inward first. Being an easy-going and understanding person gives you a good credit when you are on the way to marry rich person.

Online millionaire dating services can help you to cross the bridge between yourself and some wealthy people. Online millionaire dating services can help you with everything you need, starting with helping you to be positive about yourself, and to believe in yourself.

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I saw an interesting article on CNN today entitled "The downside of online dating".  In it, the writer discusses all the ways that online dating brings out the darker side of people.

For example:

• People will veto potential dates for very shallow reasons.  You wanted a guy who was over 6 feet and this one is perfect, but  5'10".  VETO!
• Some folks want instant gratification - WHAM! ROMANCE! - and if they don't get it, they disappear into the online mist, never to emerge again.
• Stalking an ex online is becoming more and more commonplace, including stalking their online dating profile.

What about you?  Does online dating bring out your nasty, mean, picky side?  Or are you willing to give people a chance online? As to me, I had a lucky dating experiences through the millionaire dating and wealthy men dating club wealthychats.com. He is a real millionaire! I can't never imagine that without online dating.

 

It's summer and for many lovely ladies, it is prime dating season! However, given the current economic recession, more people are staying in—and that has gotten the online dating industry booming! Read up on some reasons why more people may be turning to finding love online, as well as four free websites (i.e. no membership fee) to check out!

Why online dating is thriving

People have more time to look for love. Whether a person has been laid off or has cut down on post-work happy hours, more time is being spent at home nowadays, with extra available to actively look for "the One".It's less costly than going out. The dating scene can sometimes be a disappointing endeavour—and an expensive one to boot! The amount of money spent on drinks, food, and cab fare on a weekly basis can be overwhelming. With online dating, you can meet people for a relatively low cost (or free, as you'll see below) and make an informed decision before going out to invest your time—and money—on someone.There is a need to commiserate with someone. In these doom-and-gloom times, men and women are looking for someone to share and discuss hardships with. Conveying one's fears and concerns to a loving ear—or even having a distraction from work and money woes—may make life just a bit easier.People want to have someone to share expenses with. This is more of a long-term goal and maybe not what some people will outwardly admit to, but having someone to split the rent and bills with down the line sounds rather appealing—especially during these tough economic times.

FREE dating sites to check out

Plentyoffish.com This free dating site is a breath of fresh air from other sites that allow free membership but require payment to actually communicate with people. You can freely send messages to guys whose profiles you find interesting, shop around for guys in your area, attend social events run in your city by other members, and even block specific groups of users from messaging you. (Sorry, smokers living in the U.S. over the age of 40!)

WealthyChats.com This 100% free-to-join dating site launched by match.com has an interesting concept: wanting its users to connect with honest and respectful singles. The site relies on its community to share RealRatings of other users they've gone on dates with, to show whether they were genuine in their profiles. This will certainly filter out fraudsters and dishonest singles, keeping the dating environment safe and sincere.

Twitter The rising social networking site's intent was never to become an online dating destination, but it's pretty easy to find users in your area and begin tweeting with them. We have to admit, flirting in 140 characters or less has its quirky charms!

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I'm not sure how much Patti Stanger charges, but thanks to millionaire online dating sites like MillionaireCupid.com, her millionaire club may not be required much longer.

MillionaireCupid.com is an online personals dating site which dedicated to those men and women who are seeking a high caliber online dating experience. Just as the website mentioned: "If you are successful, you are more likely to meet your match and have a higher caliber dating experience here than other places! Every quality single is welcome here."  Members on this site should make at least $150,000 per year - they need to provide their bank documents and DL to become certified millionaires. This site guarantees them more emails than any other online dating site for millionaires, wealthy men, or sugar daddy out there. They also provide photo, age, occupation, education verifications to make the member info real and credible.

More than 80% Americans have tried to find their perfect lovers online. But many of them didn't find the right person online just because they are not on the right place at the right time. Personally, I met many different guys online who said they never contacted any women who specified how much a match should make in a year. In this case though, I'd assume these guys are well aware that their salary is the reason you're there in the first place.

The 2000's version of the millionaire match / wealthy men dating would typically spoil his young lover with gifts and often cash, as a 'reward' for her company or some other favors. These days the arrangement is more likely for a relationship, a solid bond between two willing partners. So, is singling out the rich millionaire guys weird to anyone else? What if it were an adult online dating site devoted to hot and beautiful single women? This 2009 millionaire and wealthy men dating can often develop into a powerful union of mind body and soul, leaving the conventional relationship in the dust.

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Troubled actress-singer Lindsay Lohan is looking for a lover who does not mind her alleged alcoholism or other repelling habits, she revealed in a mock Internet dating profile.

Lohan, whose recent breakup with her lesbian partner Samantha Ronson has been covered by the media, stars in a dating profile posted online Monday on the celebrity and millionaire dating site Millionaire Cupid, reports the China Daily online.

"I would define my personality as creative, a bit of a night owl, I'm a workaholic, a shopaholic and according to the state of California, an alcoholic as well as a threat to all security guards if they work at hotels," she said.

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